Hard questions

hard questions

I’m curious: what do you do with hard questions?

By hard, I mean the difficult, challenging and not obvious kind of questions.

Perhaps the first clue is whether you walk toward or away from them. Though I suspect that if you’re reading this post, you don’t immediately turn tail…

So what do you do?

I’ve come up with a number of scenarios, try them out for size and add more if you have them:

  • Think about it – playing around with it internally, including seeking out supporting information
  • Talk with others – folk you would naturally discuss this kind of thing with
  • Find an expert – someone whose insight, wisdom or expertise you trust
  • Chunk it up – it’s too big to tackle in one go, so separate out the elements to make progress
  • Ask why it is hard – what’s behind the question and why is it triggering us in this way?
  • Question why we’re even asking the question…

The thing about hard questions is that they can become like a brick wall. Difficult to scale. And after a while we get very tired, slumping into our own particular default. Each of the scenarios above has its own downward spiral that doesn’t necessarily get us over the wall – trust me!

So if they are important enough to give attention to, let’s be more intentional about how we respond. And try stepping out of our default position.

 

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